The Modern
Bride’s Guide to Si Dian Jin
Choose a Set you'll love from your Wedding to Every Day
This guide helps you make the right choice with confidence—so your jewelry is more than just a tradition, but a treasure you’ll truly cherish.
What Is Si Dian Jin (四点金)?
What Is Si Dian Jin (四点金)?

Si Dian Jin, meaning “Four Touches of Gold,” is a cherished betrothal gift from the groom’s family to welcome the bride into their home. Traditionally, it includes a ring, necklace, bangle, and earrings—but today’s brides can personalise their SDJ to match their style.
Fun Fact: While Si Dian Jin began as a Teochew tradition, it’s now embraced by many Chinese families in Singapore as a heartfelt wedding custom.

Fun Fact: While Si Dian Jin began as a Teochew tradition, it’s now embraced by many Chinese families in Singapore as a heartfelt wedding custom.
More Than Gold: A Gift of Blessings & Love from Your Future Family
More Than Gold: A Gift of Blessings & Love from Your Future Family

Si Dian Jin is more than jewellery—it’s a meaningful symbol of love and good wishes from your in-laws. It’s their way of saying:
Si Dian Jin is more than jewellery—it’s a meaningful symbol of love and good wishes from your in-laws. It’s their way of saying:

“We welcome you as family.”

“We wish you happiness, abundance, and a blissful marriage.”

“We hope you’ll treasure and wear this beyond your wedding day.”
That’s why many mothers-in-laws take great care in helping the bride choose a set that’s both meaningful and versatile—one that complements your everyday wardrobe, not just your wedding look.
That’s why many mothers-in-laws take great care in helping the bride choose a set that’s both meaningful and versatile—one that complements your everyday wardrobe, not just your wedding look.
Do I Really Need Si Dian Jin? Here’s What Brides Say.
Do I Really Need Si Dian Jin? Here’s What Brides Say.

Si Dian Jin is more than jewelry—it’s a meaningful symbol of love and good wishes from your in-laws. It’s their way of saying:
Si Dian Jin is more than jewelry—it’s a meaningful symbol of love and good wishes from your in-laws. It’s their way of saying:
JY Tan2025-03-23Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. great attention to detail and wonderful service from the crew! gave us a great feeling of personalized attention. highly recommended to visit them. Wye Kit Teng2025-03-13Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. It was a lovely experience working together with the Carrie K team and Shiela who was a joy to work with throughout the process for the engagement ring. We had visited multiple boutiques but were never impressed by the service or offerings. Shiela was patient, educational, and spent time to explain every aspect of the ring so we could make a choice that fit our preference and budget. After that, Shiela helped me to keep the experience a surprise and also accommodated on safekeeping the ring once it was ready, and also on payment terms. Thank you so much! Wesley Yang2025-03-11Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Amazing service. We particularly loved how they took the time to walk us through every step of the design process.They also really made an effort to know our story, incorporating it into the ring. It came out nothing short of perfect. Jeremin2025-02-08Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I went to Carrie K for my engagement ring as well as wedding band and honestly, from the first presentation I was blown away by how detail orientated and professional Carrie K handles custom jewellery. Shiela was amazing in presenting what Carrie K does and I was fully onboard from day 1. Eventually, when the rings came, it was nothing short of perfection. Everything, down to the service, craftsmanship and presentation about Carrie K was top notch. When it came to the wedding bands, it was just as spectacular. I even had an artist friend of mine do up a sketch to translate it into a ring and Carrie K executed to perfection. All in all, my experience was nothing short of the highest quality and I would recommend this place to anyone looking to get fine jewellery. Mingjun Lim2025-02-04Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Was looking online for unique jewelry for my wife when I stumbled upon Carrie K. They were happy to accommodate a next day appointment. Gladys at the showroom was very warm and welcoming and helped introduce the collections and pieces in great detail. My wife loved the beautiful designs and the subtle Singaporean accents they incorporate. Would definitely reccommend coming down to check out the pieces as they look even better in person! S Song2025-01-18Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Thank you Shiela and team at Carrie K for materialising my design and converting my engagement ring and a ring from my FIL into an heirloom ring. Love their attention to details and attempts to make the ring as perfect as possible. Super satisfied with the product. Highly recommend! Michelle Kan2025-01-13Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Excellent service and beautifully furnished storefront! Leony was really lovely and exceptionally helpful too :) Highly recommend their pieces too - each one of them are crafted really well with an elegant finish for that special event; yet subtle enough for everyday wear. Versatility 💯 Ava Cheong2025-01-13Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Had an initial appointment with Carrie K in early June 2024 - the first in our entire engagement ring journey - and Shiela left such a good impression on us we couldn’t help but go back. She explained the considerations when choosing a diamond, and walked us through what the process would look like, showing us examples of bespoke rings which tell stories. We opted for something a bit more simple, which I liked - a bezel set, emerald cut diamond, with my partner’s and my birthstones as a hidden detail. I also wanted a slightly thicker band. The end product is just stunning - everything I wanted! Highly recommend going to Carrie K for bespoke jewelry pieces - especially engagement rings - that tell your story.
Your Must-Have Guide to Choosing Si Dian Jin
(Without the Stress)
What Is Si Dian Jin (四点金)?


Si Dian Jin, Simplified
Understand what SDJ really is, why it’s meaningful, and how modern brides are making it their own—in just minutes.

Wear It Beyond the Wedding
Find versatile, stylish designs that blend tradition with your personal style—so your SDJ doesn’t just sit in a box.

Mix, Match & Make It Yours
SDJ isn’t one-size-fits-all! Discover how to customize your set with different metals, designs, and personal touches.

Budgeting & Smart Shopping Tips
Get insider tips on what to expect for SDJ pricing, how to discuss budgets with your in-laws, and ways to get the best value.

Avoid Common Bride Mistakes
Learn what to ask during SDJ appointments, how to ensure MIL approval, and key details to check before buying.

Your SDJ Timeline, Made Simple
Get a simple step-by-step timeline so you know exactly when to start researching, visiting stores, and finalizing your SDJ.

Real Bride Insights
Hear from brides who’ve been through this—what they loved, what they wished they knew earlier, and how they made their final choice.
Download the guide now and make your SDJ journey simple, stylish, and stress-free!

Si Dian Jin, Simplified

Wear It Beyond the Wedding
Find versatile, stylish designs that blend tradition with your personal style—so your SDJ doesn’t just sit in a box.

Mix, Match & Make It Yours
SDJ isn’t one-size-fits-all! Discover how to customize your set with different metals, designs, and personal touches.

Budgeting & Smart Shopping Tips
Get insider tips on what to expect for SDJ pricing, how to discuss budgets with your in-laws, and ways to get the best value.

Avoid Common Bride Mistakes
Learn what to ask during SDJ appointments, how to ensure MIL approval, and key details to check before buying.

Your SDJ Timeline, Made Simple

Real Bride Insights
Hear from brides who’ve been through this—what they loved, what they wished they knew earlier, and how they made their final choice.
Download the guide now and make your SDJ journey simple, stylish, and stress-free!
Real Brides Share: How They Found Meaningful & Modern Si Dian Jin
Real Brides Share: How They Found Meaningful & Modern Si Dian Jin


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Michelle Kan
Leony’s exceptional service and Carrie K’s elegantly crafted pieces make them perfect for both special events and everyday wear.

ann seojin (annopano)
Shiela and the Carrie K team beautifully transformed my engagement ring and FIL’s ring into a stunning heirloom piece with incredible attention to detail.

Michelle Kan
Carrie K made our engagement and wedding ring journey seamless with thoughtful personalization and exceptional support from start to finish.

ann seojin (annopano)

Michelle Kan
Leony’s exceptional service and Carrie K’s elegantly crafted pieces make them perfect for both special events and everyday wear.

ann seojin (annopano)
Shiela and the Carrie K team beautifully transformed my engagement ring and FIL’s ring into a stunning heirloom piece with incredible attention to detail.

Michelle Kan
Carrie K made our engagement and wedding ring journey seamless with thoughtful personalization and exceptional support from start to finish.





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